Legendary author Steven Pressfield said, “Writing isn’t hard. Sitting down to start is
hard.” And so, it is with most other areas of life. That’s precisely why you and I must
commit to be a finisher; someone who is dedicated to not settle for 80% but one who
closes deals and projects and completes personal goals. But what about those of us
who just wish we could get going and take the first step? Maybe you’re eager to
finally step out of the boat and walk upon uncharted water, but taking that first step is
all too intimidating, so instead of risking failure, you decide to stay safe and settle for
Apply this to any area of life:
Does this sound a lot like your life? Maybe you can relate to this recent email in
which a client said, “Issac, I feel uninspired and am lacking courage. After a series of
disappointments, I’m timid about taking another risk. So, I’ve settled to just wait and
see what happens.”
Believe it or not, those emails arrive in my inbox more than you’d suspect. And I
believe that the culprit lurking behind this common intimidation is one thing: fear.
Fear will stunt your growth.
Fear will shut down your potential.
Fear will burn your dreams to the ground.
Fear will jade your relationships.
But most of all. Fear will keep you from taking the most important step: the first step.
Taking the First Step
There’s a lot of risk and mystery in taking the first step. The inherent risk in taking a
first step is found in embracing when you’ll fall, not if you’ll fall. And often, the
mystery in taking a first step revolves around how long it will take to develop a stride.
Watch the development of a toddler.
Can you imagine if a parent was so gripped by the fear of their child falling and
getting bruised in the process of normal development that they insisted upon
carrying the youngster wherever they needed to go? Instead of developing their own
stride and building muscle, the toddler would never be able to support his own
weight, develop motor skills, and would ultimately atrophy an otherwise healthy
And that’s just what the fear of stepping out into the unknown does to our
development in life. The fear of embracing the risk and mystery of the unknown will
hamper your ability to take steps forward into your future. But unlike a lot of people
today, my hope for you is that your uncommon willingness to risk added to
uncommon determination will yield an uncommon result.
So, the question begs an answer: Are you going to live your life safe and stuck in
cynicism because of past disappointment? Or will you take the first step even with
the risk of failing? Point being, you cannot reach your life’s potential while putting
Really, the first step in learning how to step out into the unknown is taking full
responsibility for your life. If you’re sick and tired of living a life that’s dripping in
mediocrity because of the safety of familiarity, here’s a step-by-step process to
taking… the first step:
1. Take responsibility for your life.
Don’t allow your emotions to control you. Learn to discipline and contain your
emotions. Don’t believe what you feel. Allow your emotions to catch up to your right
beliefs and corresponding actions.
2. Seize the opportunity.
There will always be a logical reason and a good intention to justify mediocrity. But
overcoming this temptation requires embracing risk and mystery.
3. Dump the excuses and act.
Don’t wait until all your ducks are in a row before you start. In the same manner,
don’t squander your future successes because of past failures. Get up and get going
4. Expect to need a recharge.
At some point, you will run out of motivation. The initial excitement will wear off. So,
know that going in and then commit before the bell rings.
We were never designed to make choices from a place of fear. And trust me, I get
why the temptation to do so is enticing. But I’ve recently come to a place in my own
life in which I would much rather fall flat on my face than look back to this day with
tears of regret clouding my vision.
Taking the first step is often the most difficult, but it is the most necessary.
Do you believe it?